The things people say when you tell them you're a teacher
“That's so fun, you get to play all day.” You'll hear it forever. Here's the answer.
With Tammy Striler · 1:13 · Filmed fall 2020
What to take away
- “That's so fun, you get to work with kids all day.” “You have the best schedule.” “You get the summers off.”
- They have no idea what we do. They just don't.
- Nothing you say is going to make them get it, so don't spend the energy.
- Tammy's answer: “Yeah, it's really fun, I love what I do, I don't do it for the money” — then move on.
Why it works
A small tip that saves a surprising amount of irritation over a career. The point isn't the comeback, it's deciding in advance not to fight a conversation you cannot win.
Tammy Striler
Founder · classroom teacher
Thirty years in the classroom, most of them with the door open and a student teacher in the back. Tammy started these tips because the best things she learned came from other teachers over lunch, and nobody was writing them down.
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